Aziz Ansari Accused Of Sexually Assaulting 22-Year-Old Photographer In 2017

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Actor and comedian Aziz Ansari is the latest man in Hollywood to have accusations of sexual misconduct levelled at him, after an interview was published on feminist website babe with a 23-year-old woman who says the single date she went on with him was “the worst night of [her] life“.

The anonymous interviewee, referred to as Grace, says that while her initial interactions with Ansari were fun – they met at the Emmys afterparty in 2017, when Grace was 22 – their date quickly turned sour. Grace explains that Ansari rushed her out of the restaurant they were in as soon as they’d finished eating and took her back to his apartment, where she says he immediately started making out with her, undressing her and undressing himself.

After Ansari said he would go get a condom just minutes after their first kiss, Grace says she “said something like, ‘Whoa, let’s relax for a sec, let’s chill.‘”

She says this was a common theme throughout their encounter: he would charge forward, attempting to initiate sex, and she’d try to put the brakes on. She describes in particular a move that he kept doing that she calls “the claw“:

The move he kept doing was taking his two fingers in a V-shape and putting them in my mouth, in my throat to wet his fingers, because the moment he’d stick his fingers in my throat he’d go straight for my vagina and try to finger me.

She also says that he persistently followed her around the apartment as she tried to withdraw, kept trying to put her hand on his dick, and ignored her non-verbal cues that she was uninterested, like when she says she stopped moving her lips while they were kissing and “went cold“.

Grace says that when she verbally expressed her discomfort, telling Ansari, “I don’t want to feel forced because then I’ll hate you, and I’d rather not hate you“, he suggested they take a break and “chill” on the couch – which she says then resulted in him asking her to go down on him, and her acquiescing.

Eventually, after he continued trying to have sex with her, she again verbally said she didn’t want to do that, and he again suggested they “chill”, but clothed this time. Grace says he tried to make out with her again, and when she expressed that she wanted to leave, called her a car. She says she cried the whole way home.

Babe has published images of the text message exchange that they allege took place between Grace and Ansari the day after the date, in which Grace sent a long message explaining that he made her feel violated and uneasy. Ansari responded with:

I’m so sad to hear this. All I can say is, it would never be my intention to make you or anyone feel the way you described. Clearly, I misread things in the moment and I’m truly sorry.

The interview has generated controversy online, with some calling for a boycott of Ansari’s work and others defending him as being “clumsy”, but not crossing a line of consent. Others have taken to Twitter to share their own allegations of Ansari’s misconduct toward them and their friends.

Ansari and his representatives have yet to respond.

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