The female orgasm; it’s rarer than you think. Women hit their sexual peak much later in life than men, and many adult women have never experienced an orgasm.
But, one woman is hellbent on changing that. While she chooses to remain anonymous, she spoke to The Cut to explain why she started the website.
She explains that, after a particular sexual experience, she was left, “thinking obsessively about female orgasm and communication. A few days later, my head still swirling with questions and rants and dreams about sex, I blurted out all my thoughts to one of my closest friends. I felt this surge of adrenaline as I began to confess every detail to her, from the thrilling to the mortifying.By the time I left her, I was positively buzzing. Even though we’d been friends for years, even though we’d talked plenty about sex, I realized we’d never discussed it with this degree of specificity and vulnerability. If this was how it felt to be this honest about female orgasms with one woman, I wanted to have this conversation on a much larger scale. I needed more women.”
Enter How To Make Me Come; a curated online collection of sexual experiences, tips, directions and stories, all written by women in order to enrich, enlighten, and educate potential givers and receivers of the rare and beautiful flower that is the female sexual climax.
Each entry on HTMMC lands somewhere on a vast sexual spectrum, from:
- Personal foreplay tips, like “go beyond [calling me] ‘beautiful’ and ‘sexy’. Tell me my breasts are peachy orbs of lusciousness.”
- ~ What Not To Do ~, or personal experiences of times that someone did NOT make the author come. e.g. “Your hand was down my pants rummaging around like you were looking for lost keys in a purse.”
- Learning how to learn – no one is born talented at sexual intercourse, sorry. The best people to learn from in terms of giving a female orgasm, is a woman: “Ask to watch me touch myself. If you haven’t already, LEARN TO FIND THIS HOT. You will learn so much about how my particular body works by watching me work with it.”
- Look, we’re not gonna post all the sexy stuff here, you’re gonna have to actually visit the site, okay buddy?
Each entry is written by a different anonymous woman, so you know you aren’t just learning what works for one lady, you’re browsing a rich tapestry of the oft-elusive female orgasm. Mazel tov, ladies and gentlemen.
You can browse How To Make Me Come ~HERE~.
YOU’RE WELCOME.
via HTMMC
