The AFL Grand Final long weekend is almost here and for plenty of people that means a day at the pub with mates or a packed living room. For others, it can be a particularly dangerous weekend.
Victoria Police recorded 868 family violence incidents over last year’s Grand Final weekend. Police attended 315 incidents on Grand Final Day alone, a 5 per cent rise on the year before.
If you are concerned about someone’s safety, or your own this weekend there are services that can help. You do not need to wait for a situation to get worse before contacting one.
If you need help now
If someone is in immediate danger, call Triple Zero (000).
Safe Steps is Victoria’s 24-hour family violence response service for women and children. Call 1800 015 188.
1800RESPECT offers 24/7 counselling, information and support for people affected by domestic, family and sexual violence. It can also advise people who are worried about a friend or relative. Call 1800 737 732.
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Support that may fit
There is no one right service for every person or situation.
The Orange Door can connect Victorians experiencing family violence, people concerned about their own behaviour, and families needing support with children’s wellbeing to local services.
Rainbow Doorprovides specialist support for LGBTIQA+ Victorians and their families. Call 1800 729 367, or text 0480 017 246, from 10am to 5pm.
inTouch supports migrant and refugee communities affected by family violence in Victoria.
13YARN offers confidential crisis support with an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander crisis supporter. Call 13 92 76.
If you are worried for a mate
If you have a friend that you are concerned about 1800RESPECT can talk through how to support someone safely on 1800 737 732.
If your behaviour concerns you
A big game, drinking or an argument does not excuse family violence. If you are that person using violence, you need to take responsibility and get support.
Men’s Referral Service, from No to Violence, is for men worried about their behaviour. Call 1300 766 491.
MensLine Australia also offers 24/7 phone and online support for men and boys dealing with relationship or family difficulties. Call 1300 789 978.
For urgent emotional support, Lifeline is available on 13 11 14. Young people aged five to 25 can contact Kids Helpline on 1800 55 1800.

